Building a Better Wardrobe ~and haircut~

Blouse: Rightful Owner
Weather: Spring! Brown Grass! Yes!

Slowly, slowly I am working on a completely sustainable wardrobe. It’s been a number of years I’ve been on this path, but I’m really feeling like I’ve found designers who work for my style in the past year or so, and it’s been a lot more fun than it has been in a long while.

This blouse is by Rightful Owner, and it is so beautiful! I love how it looks at once modern and vintage, and the perfect puff sleeve makes me so happy.

Look at the sleeve!

I’m learning to sew (again, slowly), and that I think will be a big help in keeping my wardrobe exciting to me, well-fitting, and fun. No more pestering my mom and MIL to make me dresses, I’m a strong independent woman who don’t need no help. (I do, though). So far I have hemmed pants and taken in the jeans from the top image. You just sew up the seam on the outside! It worked like a dream. Now, I don’t need new jeans 😀

haircut!
By Lou at Unlistd.

My hair is growing! I now have kind-of a bob! I have 0 regrets on keeping it short for these years, but man growing it out is tough. It’s true what they say, that the key to keeping it nice is regular cuts. Counterintuitive if you’re growing it out to get it cut, but it really keeps everything looking Intentional instead of messy.

Later, gators.

xx

Spring! But, Canadian, so still snowy.

We had a little weekend getaway in the Eastern Townships, and it was lovely.

First stop was the Alpaca Farm Norli in Bromont, where we met some alpacas, bought some of their yarn to make Julien a hat, and some of their meat. It wasn’t my favourite animal protein, but we had to try it!

Every time we go out to the Eastern Townships we think we should spend more time there. It’s a really nice area, with loads to do. When it warms up some, I’d like to spend some time in the wineries and at the lavender farm: see how it stacks up to the fields in Provence!

Parc de la Gorge de Coaticook

We went snowshoeing in the Parc de la Gorge de Coaticook. As usual, it seems, we chose a trail that looked manageable but about halfway I became convinced I was going to die: This is it – do they even know we’re up here? Often when we are hiking or snowshoeing I get overwhelmed at the midpoint. I suppose I have to become fitter so that I can make it to the 3/4 mark before I start panicking.

Julien, of course, has no such crises, spotted a fence and needed to know what was on the other side – so he sprinted up the rest of the mountain, be-snowshoed, and reported back.

Afterward, we treated ourselves to well-deserved ice cream at Laiterie de Coaticook. It was so good, Y’all, I can’t even tell you how good it was. Creamy and sweet and just wonderful. Does it feel a bit silly to scarf ice cream while wearing snow pants? Yes. Does it matter? Heck, no.

Le Sentier Glacé

Did you know I used to take figure skating lessons? I did! For many years – I could do crossovers, and wee jumps, and skate backwards.

Now, I can fall spectacularly! It’s not like falling off a bike, at all, this is not a skill you retain. I did get the hang of it eventually, but wings out the whole time. People laughed at me (in a joyful way, no malice), but I had a good time! I really like skating, once I get going 🙂

We have no other trips lined up for the foreseeable future, but winter will be over soon, I can tell. Time to start planning the garden!

Sweatsuit

I just needed to wear a sweatsuit (comfy) this weekend and not look like I was wearing a sweatsuit (cute), so I broke out my two favourite locally made pieces.

Pants – Odeyalo
Top – Eliza Faulkner
Necklace – Goye
High-Tops – Adidas
“Belt Bag” (Fanny pack) – Zara

They’re both made in Montreal! I’m super in love with the Raffi top, I wear it probably more often than I should, but I feel so good in it! Comfy and stylish and fantastic, no complaints. The finishing work on it is incredible, the seams are covered with ribbon, can you imagine? The inside of my top is as pretty as the outside.

These pants are new and so cozy, but I’m not 100% sold on the quality of them, I’ve worn them twice and already the thighs are pilling – and I haven’t washed them yet! Hopefully this is the extent of the deterioration, but we’ll see. They’re 10/10 for comfort, though.

I love that I can now put together entire outfits of locally made, conscious consumerism stuff that isn’t “crunchy” in style. There’s been a major movement the past few years toward responsible fashion, and I am so for it. Part of me is still super maximalism, and that makes it really hard to not go for fast-fashion, but I am proud to say with very few exceptions, I haven’t bought anything Fast Fashion for going on seven years. I scratch my cheapie deepie itch with thrifted pieces, and really only make a clothing purchase every few months. Far cry from when this started, I was shopping almost daily at F21 or H&M. I’m really pleased I’ve managed to curb that, while staying true to my OTT fashion heart.

No more.

So we had to flee after the snowstorm, it was just too much. Luckily, Lauren and Mike were in Cancun and we joined them for a little long weekend!

Sorry for my butt. Swimsuit from Simons.

It was our first time going down south for a holiday, and it was pretty great. We stayed at an all-inclusive, which was not my style but very relaxing. Had some great food and really disconnected.

I brought a few swimsuits with me, to make this a little bit closet-y. One from Asos’ Fuller Bust line, which is SUPER cute but doesn’t really offer as much support as I would like. If you are looking for something sexy or cute and not matronly, I highly recommend them. They size up to G (UK)!

I have a super soft spot for bathing suits, even though I live in a climate where they are not super useful, and the Asos ones make me want hundreds. Yay for inclusive sizing on cute things!

Sunrise! Swimsuit is the Eloise from Rosa Faia.

My favourite is quite matronly but makes me feel like a million bucks so I don’t care. I got it at Lingerie Debra, and it’s the Eloise by Rosa Faia.

I thought for sure because the back is quite low cut it would offer me nothing, but everything feels super great. I would even consider a run along the beach in it. The butt goes see-through on me, not sure if this is a common issue or just the size of my ace.

If you’ve never been to Lingerie Debra, it changed my life. They’re beyond wonderful.

I sat on the pier for so long the birds accepted me as one of their own. I, however, did not accept them.

So, it was our first time in Mexico, first time at an all-inclusive, and first time doing a mini-break in winter, I think. Lots of firsts! We should definitely do it again, I had a wonderful time. Lauren and Mike are spectacular travel companions – so positive and fun.

Lauren & Mike – travel buds

If we were to do Mexico again, I’d definitely do it a bit differently : The All-inclusive vibe isn’t for me, I tend to think of my hotel / airbnb as a base for sleeping and nothing else, whereas this time we left the resort only once! For a four-day reset, though, it was perfect.

January 2019 Recap

Somehow it’s already a) February b) 2019!

I don’t know how either of these things happened but I’m OK with it. So what did I do in January?

We started the year in NB with Mina & Don! We had an awesome time playing Catan, meeting their new (to us) bb Lupin, and staying indoors because Ice Storm!

Made it to Midnight!

Julien got a Vive for Christmas, so we did quite a bit of VR, including showing my nephew the ropes:

Move with the controllers, not with your feet.

I did a konmari cleanup of my closet, but ended up putting everything right back in because it ALL SPARKS JOY. This is okay according to the KonMari philosophy. Those petticoats? Make my tummy do flipflops. Two onesies? Make my heart sing! Keeping. Them.

It was a really useful exercise actually – I found a few outfits I would not have thought of otherwise and I really connected with each item while I was holding it and going “Joy?” I’m also pretty proud that I don’t seem to buy a lot that I don’t genuinely love!

Let’s see. I read ten books – befriend me on GoodReads! My favourite of the month was definitely The Handmaid’s Tale, and least favourite was Game of Scones. Cozy mysteries, they’re not for me.

	
	

We had a big ol’ snowstorm and could barely get the mini out of the alley.

And I did a boatload of cooking! Marmalade from The Preservation Society cookbook, Simple Ribollita from BA, were highlights.

Jar of sunshine. And sugar.

Ladies’ Trip to Paris

This November, Lauren and I did our first solo-ladies trip together! We decided to go to Paris because neither of our husbands are super keen on Paris. We (I) had an amazing time.

At Point Zero – the point from which all distances in France are measured. Center of Paris 2300 years ago.

There were days we walked more than 30 kilometers, and I think we did a great job of seeing all the major touristy parts. We did Versailles, the Louvre, the Tour Eiffel, Invalides, all the fancy ponts, we went to Shakespeare & Co., Notre Dame, The Bon Marché, Petit and Grand Palaises, Jardins of Luxembourg and Tuileries, and we spent a bunch of time just wandering around stumbling on cool things.

Hall of Mirrors in Verailles

We managed to make it to Versailles while it was open! (Last time I went with Julien, we got there at like 15h and they were like “ah mais non.”) You really do need all-day to see it. It was just OK for me? Like a lot of gold rooms I guess but too samey-same for me.

The Gardens were once again under construction, and part of me hopes I never get to see it in the high season. As far as I know the gardens of Versailles is just a bunch of weird tarps. We did get some fog which made everything look super creepy, and met a Raven who stayed long enough for me to get a (sharp!) photograph of him.

The Louvre was super fantastic. I’m not a big museum person, but it is room after room of incredible things housed in a palace, so even if you’re not a museum person there’s stuff for you.

Louvre pyramid at night! Lauren was super patient while I long-exposured this.

FOR EXAMPLE. In the (19th) century, a bunch of feet were ACCIDENTALLY replaced by dogs during the restoration of these tomb things. This happened more than once:

Then when you’re done with the dogfoot statues, there’s a few cool paintings and stuff.

Long hair, don’t care, she handle the business and don’t ever tell

We took a break midway on Louvre day to get outside and get lunch, walk over to the Invalides, see some town, do some shopping. In the Tuileries, there were goats!

These goats were literally stolen the day we met them.

All in all we (I) had a fantastic time! I really hope Lauren is up for more ladytrips because she is a wonderful travelling companion. Never a complaint, always up to Go! Go! Go! and full of research. We ate, made merry, and saw so much.

End of the week, Lauren finally saw the Tour Eiffel, and was so Parisian she didn’t care.

SNOWSTORM 2019

We did it, we brought a snowstorm.

We dug the mini out of the alley, twice. Made it, though!

We had been complaining about the middling winter this year – not very snowy, not good enough for winter activities. We complained about it and we got what we deserve for it.

Sorry about that.

We ventured out in the snow to drop my sewing machines off for repair. I have a tonne of projects planned once I get them back! It was terribly stupid to go out though, it was full-on blizzarding.

Road Trip – Coast of Spain

We did an amazing road trip down the coast of Spain this summer. Starting in Barcelona, where we dropped friends off for their flight to Sweden, then down to Javea & Alicante. Four days. Amazing time!

Peniscola at night.

We started in Peniscola, about a three hour’s drive from our starting point. It was so crowded and touristy! I was really surprised. Though it was the end of June, so the height of vacation period, I suppose!

The second morning I woke up just before dawn, and decided I may as well wake Julien for sunrise. We walked through the old town streets, no one else around – that was something else!

Penis-Verd was a must-see.

Obviously, we had to stop around Peniscola for all the penis-themed signs. Of which there were many.

The roads in Spain are twisty.

It turns out I get super carsick. The roads in Spain are twisty and my tummy was not built for it. It was also in the mid-40s C, and our AC was fritzy at best.

Julien pulled over for me to vom on the side of the road often, and luckily got many photographs of it. 😐

😀 in Valencia

Valencia’s City of Arts & Sciences is incredible. It comes from the future, like an episode of TNG (or, you know, Doctor Who!). It’s super beautiful and we spent hours wandering around. Julien took a wee nap on a bench while I explored by myself a bit. Which was scary for me, not speaking Spanish, but not bad.

The food! My goodness the food. I had my first Paella in Alicante, on St Jean Baptiste day, which they also celebrate with the most amazing floats and bonfires, and food tents! The food offerings stretched on forever and we managed to partake. It was amazing, I love streetfood. We also got Sangrias the size of our noggins.

The second Paella was in Denia, who claim to be the inventors of Paella. I bet loads of places make that claim, but it was a darn fine Paella.

We spent one night in an actual castle in Tortosa! The Paradores are these hotels that are in converted historic buildings. This one was a tenth century castle, Castillo de La Zuda. We book everything in the car as we drive up to it, and because it was super last minute, we got it at like 60% off. Tortosa doesn’t seem to be a big Tourism place, so we felt like we had the whole place to ourselves. We dined on the terrace and didn’t explore the city at all. Have to go back, I guess!

Tarragona

Our last stop was Tarragona, where we hoped to see the human towers, but missed them by one day! Julien was moderately disappointed, but since we saw so much, I don’t feel too badly about it. I know we’ll be back, and I suppose we’ll time it better next time around.

This was definitely a top-trip for me. We often spend a lot of our holidays driving, but this one we had planned so many stops that it didn’t feel like a long car ride at all, even though it was about 1600 km.

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